1 Never underestimate the value of asking your partner how his day went.

1、永遠(yuǎn)不要低估問(wèn)你的另一半“今天過(guò)得怎么樣”這句話的重要性

2 Some fights are just fights。 They don‘t have to be deal breakers.

2、吵架歸吵架，沒(méi)有必要成為分裂的導(dǎo)火線。

3 Accept that relationships come with obligations.

3、接受婚姻和責(zé)任相伴相隨這一事實(shí)

4. But be honest about which events you feel strongly that your partner attend.

4、但如果你強(qiáng)烈覺(jué)得你的另一半應(yīng)該參加某個(gè)活動(dòng)，就要實(shí)話實(shí)說(shuō)。

5 Little surprise purchases go a long way.

5、各種小的意外驚喜能讓你的婚姻走得長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)。

6 Don‘t force group or double dates when all couples aren’t friends.

6、如果不同的約會(huì)夫婦(情侶)之間不是朋友，不要勉強(qiáng)進(jìn)行組團(tuán)約會(huì)或四人約會(huì)。

7 Kiss hello before doing anything else when you get home。 Kiss good-bye when you leave.

7、回到家先親一個(gè)再做別的事，出門(mén)前來(lái)個(gè)吻別。

8 Sometimes you have to say no to invitations so you can spend time with each other.

8、有時(shí)你必須拒絕應(yīng)酬，那樣你們就可以有時(shí)間待在一起。

9 Treat his family like yours.

9、像對(duì)待自己的家人那樣對(duì)待對(duì)方的家人。

10 More “I love you”s are better than fewer.

10、經(jīng)常說(shuō)“我愛(ài)你”比很少說(shuō)這三個(gè)字要好。

11 Be sympathetic when your significant other is sick.

11、當(dāng)你的另一半生病了要有同情心。

12 Take on more of the errands/household chores when the other one is swamped at work.

12、當(dāng)另一半忙于工作時(shí)，多跑跑腿、多做點(diǎn)家務(wù)啥的。

13 Don‘t make jokes at each other’s expense.

13、不要把快樂(lè)建立在對(duì)方的痛苦上。

14 Be on time.

14、守時(shí)。

15. If someone talks shit about your S.O.， defend him.

15、如果有人辱罵你的另一半，要堅(jiān)決維護(hù)。

16 Keep each other informed of your individual plans.

16、要讓對(duì)方知道自己的個(gè)人計(jì)劃。

17 Respond to each other‘s texts， calls， etc.

17、要回復(fù)對(duì)方的短信、電話等等。

18 Choose not to fight when you travel.

18、旅行的時(shí)候不要吵架。

19 Be spontaneous.

19、不矯揉造作。

20 Love each other unconditionally.

20、無(wú)條件愛(ài)著對(duì)方。